Jordan Blake

Jordan Blake is a trauma-informed relationship coach, writer, and advocate for emotional healing. For over a decade, she has helped people untangle the invisible threads of anxious attachment, childhood wounds, and toxic relationship patterns so they can finally feel safe, seen, and deeply loved-first by themselves, and then by others.But Jordan's work isn't just rooted in research or training-it's deeply personal.As someone who once felt stuck in a cycle of overthinking, people-pleasing, and...See more

Jordan Blake is a trauma-informed relationship coach, writer, and advocate for emotional healing. For over a decade, she has helped people untangle the invisible threads of anxious attachment, childhood wounds, and toxic relationship patterns so they can finally feel safe, seen, and deeply loved-first by themselves, and then by others.But Jordan's work isn't just rooted in research or training-it's deeply personal.As someone who once felt stuck in a cycle of overthinking, people-pleasing, and fearing abandonment, Jordan knows what it's like to lose yourself in the name of love. She's walked through her own healing journey, faced her inner child, and come out the other side not just surviving, but thriving in secure, grounded relationships.Her approach blends attachment theory, inner child work, nervous system regulation, and compassionate self-awareness-all wrapped in a tone that feels more like a heart-to-heart conversation than a clinical lecture. Her mission is simple but powerful: to help people stop chasing love and start becoming the kind of person who attracts it with ease and authenticity.When she's not writing or coaching, you'll find Jordan curled up with a good book, hiking in nature, or laughing over coffee with her closest circle-the very relationships she once thought were impossible to have.This book is the one she wishes she had years ago-and now, she's passing it on to you.Wishing you a calm and focused mind-always. See less